Rekindling Romantic Love
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By. Marie C. Barrett

Would you like to rekindle a truly romantic relationship? What does it take to make you feel romantic? How can you help your partner feel romantic? What are you willing to contribute to the relationship? How are you going to make it all happen just as you want? I think you will a gree with me that these are rather key questions if you hope to take your romantic relationship to the next level of excitement and love. Let's step into the wonderful world of romantic love and delve into some of its secrets.

So you want a truly romantic relationship but over the years you have grown indifferent or maybe just take each other for granted. Familiarity tends to create this kind of mediocrity, but you can turn it around, starting right now. I'm going to focus on you for the moment, not on your partner.

What would it take to make you feel romantic to ward your partner? Or put another way, what would you like your partner to do for you to help you feel special and the focus of their romantic love and desire? I will write from the woman's perspective for the sake of clarity, but the strategies apply to both sexes. Would taking you in his arms and hugging you do it for you? What about if he asked about your day or how you're feeling and have him really listen to what you have to say, then have him sit beside you and whisper in your ear, "You know, I really love you!"

If you are a person who enjoys being touched, his caress will make you feel closer and loved. If you prefer to hear "I love you!", having your partner say that will reach into your heart. Think about what triggers you and how you respond. Later, you can tell him what you want him to say or do that touches your unique response mechanism and turns you into that romantic soul you really are, deep inside.

Communication of this kind will break down his barriers quickly, and there is no doubt he would delight to know that secret formula, instead of having to guess. It is so frustrating for one partner to keep pushing buttons that don't turn on the light in the eyes of the other.

Once you understand your own response triggers that make you feel romantic, loveable and special, step into your partner's shoes for a moment, and pretend to be him. You might think this is a bit dangerous and that no-one can walk in their partner's shoes or feel their feelings, but play along for the moment.

This is just an exercise to become aware of your needs and your partner's needs. If you know what would make you feel romantically charged, in may help you to work out what you can do to turn your partner into a romantic as well. Make sense? How can you activate his triggers?

Everyone wants to feel special, unique and deeply loved for who they are. Especially your partner. He may find it difficult to express his needs, but that's part of getting to know him intimately. As you reveal little parts of yourself to him, not all at once, but in tiny snippets of closeness, as you break down the barriers between you, you will simultaneously build a connection unique and intimate to the two of you, that no-one else can share.

You want him to make you feel special and to love you more than anyone else in an intimate and soul-sharing closeness. It's my guess he would love to feel that kind of passionate, unique love coming from you too. Work out ways to make him feel special. Tell him how wonderful he is! Make him feel fantastic; give him your encouragement and approval. Isn't that what you would like too?

If there seems to be a stalemate or indifference in your relationship, don't stand for it any more. The Law of Attraction will give you what you want if you are willing to do what it takes to make it happen. Help your partner feel loved, worthwhile, attractive and lovable.

Make it happen now! Start with becoming kind and lovable yourself. Work on being the kind of person your partner enjoys being with. Bring some pleasant fun and a sense of humor back into your love sharing. Laughter and fun are magnetic in anyone's personality. Smile, share, have fun, listen, hug, whisper sweet things to each other, but above all, be true to yourself and be authentic.

As you become comfortable and happy within yourself, you will gently awaken a response in your lover. Why? Because this is pure love and joy expressing through you. Authenticity expressed in love will attract a similar response. There is no doubt about this as it is a universal law, the law of Attraction. Even where you cannot yet see this love, put love, and you will receive love in return., because what you give is what you get.

So have a go at recreating and rekindling romance in your relationship. You deserve to enjoy a deep and intimate closeness with your partner, and deep down, that's what he wants as well and he deserves your love.. Life is too short to waste. Experience passionate romance, deep love and authentic happiness starting today.